Always On My Mind

Utterly distress when things don't go right.

Fantasy Home

Welcome to my new Home!



The outdoor living area on a cool day.

On a sunny day, an indoor living room would be wonderful

Getting up from bed and need to fix a quick bite, just enjoy at the breakfast top

invite friends for afternoon tea

Preparing for lunch or dinner

Lunch or dinner is ready to be served

Have a nice shower to feel fresh

or need to soak up

Calling it a Day.. for a romantic night, Bedroom one

To enjoy reading before bed, Bedroom Two

Join the kids for some fun before the night is out, Childrens' Bedroom

Love & Respect

A recent trip to visit an ailing relative had me wondering whether what I did was right or wrong – in persuading my parents especially my mum in sponsoring him for a degree overseas more than 30 years ago was the righteous thing to do. I had to convince myself that my judgement in that person was correct. It wasn’t the thought of him reciprocating us in any way but being respectful and sincere in remembering what my parents have done for him would be nice. In the few days I had spent with him, I was upset and heartbroken in the hope that he will express to me what my parents have done for him and his family. No, I didn't get to hear what I want to hear, it was a letdown and too much of a disappointment. Much worse, I had to cope with my emotions after the visit. Over the years, my parents had helped relatives who had never appreciated them and it kept me wondering whether they deserve my parents love and financial assistance. However, I have to come to terms with myself that I need to be forgiving and not bitter over such matters.

Shame On You!

I don't understand how some people manage to live through the ordeal of having creditors coming after them and yet continue to enjoy a luxurious life. It's really a SHAME!

Why WORRY?

Tell me how do you release STRESS.

Lights of My Life

I was in my early twenties when my dad ran into financial difficulties. The debt he accumulated was huge and I couldn't figure out how I could help to contribute towards our family's daily expenses. I was depressed and often cried myself to sleep. My dad loved his family dearly and had always wanted the best for his family. He was a smart guy but never had any experience in dealing with finances. From that day onwards, I learnt to be thrifty and wowed not to run into a similar fate like my father. I saved hard for every cent earned in the hope that I can have a better life with no financial implications. Despite having an affluent childhood, I was adamant to change, from being spend-thrift to a sensibly economical person. But I don't see that in my siblings and how they had learnt from this bitter lesson. They continued to spend lavishly by going abroad for holidays, indulge in expensive clubbing, dining out etc, etc. Whenever they run into debts or could not cover their expenses, they would call me for help. I would usually chip in to see what I could do for them and without hesitation lend them whatever the amount they needed. The funny thing is I couldn't see that I was indirectly exposing them to more danger. Over time, I began to hate myself for assisting them in such a wrong way. To stir myself away from this pitfall, I have decided to halt all monetary assistance to them except on humanitarian grounds.

I have constantly reminded my children to save for rainy days and instilled in them the habit of savings, never to indulge in expensive things that they could ill afford and to spend within their limits. I hope this invaluable advice would sink in with them.

JUST GO

"Just Go" is Lionel Richie's latest single. I heard this song "Just Go" while watching American Idol. Danny Gokey, a finalist sang this duet with Lionel Ritchie. It's a beautiful song. I loved it!

Pillows

Went out today and was determined to buy a medium-sized handbag for my forthcoming trip. I have always encounter the same problem, if I needed to purchase something, it is most unlikely that I would find one which is suitable. I really don't know why. So I came home without one but the good thing is I stumbled upon a shop selling pillows which were made solely from rubber. For quite some time, I had been looking for a firm pillow which provide support of the neck and I found it. I bought two, one was a contour pillow that helps to protect the neck and the other for hubby which was firm. It was quite costly and it costs RM149 each.

HOLIDAY

The holiday season is here. Yeah, I'm ready for a holiday.

MONEY MONEY MONEY

First Scenario
My business has been badly affected during the last six months and I need to borrow some money. Can you borrow on my behalf some RM20K from our rich cousin?

Second Scenario
Can you please lend me RM10K? I need some cashflow for my business.

Tell me how would you react and respond in a sensible mind to these situations without fuming mad and raising your furious tone.

Money

Remember

MONEY will not create the HAPPINESS you desire

SAD

Am feeling disappointed, frustrated and helpless. It's not my problem, it's yours. Be responsible for your own problems. So, why come to me? I don't think I'm smart nor capable in resolving matters but definitely I'm vulnerable, so does that mean I have to grieve in silence. Wish I could blow it all away...

New Year Resolutions

I always hear about people writing new year resolutions every New Year. How about you? Do you have a list of new year resolutions for 2009? In this post, I want to comment how I feel about those who make one. To me making a resolution is all about making a decision or choice. If the decision is made and not being carried out in that particular year, then your resolution is merely a wish which you set your heart on, with no aim or purpose, be it your decision is to acquire new skill, quit a bad habit or achieve a goal. Do not continue to make resolutions year after year without having any real purpose. Make sure you DO IT!

Remember your wishlists are useless unless actions are taken!

GONG XI FA CAI

GONG XI GONG XI...

I WOULD LIKE TO WISH ALL MALAYSIANS A VERY AUSPICIOUS & PROSPEROUS YEAR OF THE OX.

Spring Cleaning

It has certainly been a much enjoyed break. I, for one take my holiday seriously. When you are on holiday, there are so many options and choices...whether you want to cook or eat out, to go to Langkawi or Pangkor, the decision is absolutely yours to make. Now that the school holiday is over and so is New Year, it's time to get back to work realistically.

Yes, I am looking forward to another break.....Chinese New Year holiday but not after I had my house spring cleaned and that's a deal!

So, let's get down to work......

USHERING IN 2009 !!!!!!

HI FOLKS!

HAPPY NEW YEAR

2009